Yes, this title is a bit dramatic, but there is more than a little truth to it. I am also somewhat ashamed that I haven’t posted any of my own writing for some time, and I’m working on getting something posted, once a week.
After some time off work, I joined a company, and found myself more unhappy than I have ever been at work. It turned out to be a combination of extremely poor leadership at the company and work that I didn’t enjoy. My stress levels were skyrocketing, and I leaned on some familiar ways of coping including a lot of binge drinking, which of course did little to relieve the growing anxiety and displeasure with my situation. When I wasn’t medicating myself, I began delving into other ways to help control my emotions, including reading about Buddhism, adding yoga to my daily routine, and meditating in the morning…
You are a very complex being. You are, in fact, multidimensional. That is something that you will, or perhaps will not, experience soon. But, in the meantime, perhaps we may show you a little something. Our question for you today is, who is looking out through your eyes? Is it the person who is being […]
Greetings! From heart to heart in this moment we speak, I am KejRaj(KayRy). The reason I say ‘we’ speak is because besides my self choosing to deliver this message, I know I am also being guided by other forces in this journey.
I’m sharing this today, because I want to urge everyone to take time to meditate and become heart centered. Today, I had a glimmer of this new “wave” that is coming in. I felt such tremendous love for everyone, and it’s important that you are ready when this comes. Mahalo
Sometimes, when you first move into a place you just want to get the furniture in place, unpack the boxes, and start living your life.
Too many times to count, I’ve left pictures along the wall on the floor, thinking that if I hang them, something disastrous will happen, and I’ll have to move again. I guess the act of leaving them on the floor keeps things in a temporary state, leaving me impermanent in case I need to fly the coop.
Maybe boxes get shoved into a closet to be dealt with later ( NOT).
When I finally overcame these fears (there must be some deep-seated psychological meaning to all of this) my life started to flow better, my mind became more clear, and I was able to recognize when something just didn’t feel right.
As I walk around a room, I can sense the awkward flow of movement when something is blocking the flow of energy.
Now the pictures get hung, or stored, or donated.
The boxes, too.
The clutter is cleared.
In this room, the bookcase was sitting next to the closet, disabling the use of the large drawers near the floor.
It’s funny that now I go into other people’s houses and move the furniture.
At home, I had a French arm chair sitting at my personal desk. It was pretty, but it stuck out too far and obstructed the flow of traffic when one entered through the front door.
So, I changed it. ( you can see the post where I redid my desk area here.)
Take a look around your space.
Do a walk-through.
Is there anything blocking your path?
Are there any unfinished projects sitting around? Is there a clear path from room to room?
If not, there could be something blocking your life path.
Lay the bagua over your room to see if any area that’s blocked or cluttered coincides with the area of your life on the Bagua.
Lay the Bagua ( see photo above) over each room with the door to the room at the bottom of the page. The door of the room will fall into either the Knowledge, Career, or Helpful People area.
When I moved my chair from the desk and put an armless chair in it’s place (which fell in my Helpful People and Travel area of the Bagua) I was offered this trip to Hawaii.
When I moved the bookcase in this bedroom so that it wasn’t blocking the drawers, (also in the Helpful People and Travel area) he was offered a chance to go to boys’ camp for the Summer.
Coincidence, you may think?
I think not….
Try it, and let me know how it works for you.
Life can be so much easier when we are in the flow.
I express gratitude for the ability and understanding to keep my life flowing.
A real chip-off-the-old-block, she grew up with parties.
When she was 9 years old, it was a blustery, wet day in Sacramento and she wanted to play with her friends.
She came up with the brilliant idea of having a skating party in our single car garage.
We cleared, cleaned, and decorated it with crepe paper ribbons and balloons, set up the record player, and invited all of the kids in the neighborhood.
With the garage door open, the sound track from the movie “Grease” playing, the kids enjoyed skating in circles while the rain poured down just outside, at her impromptu party.
Fast forward 30 years, and she continues to have, Burger parties, full moon parties, Halloween, Christmas, and Hanukah parties, but on a larger scale, and usually all inclusive with her friends and their partners and children as well.
Many of these parties are made on the spur of the moment or only a week in advance.
This time, we are coming in behind two days of garage sale-ing to divest her of some furniture from a storage unit, and there are boxes all over the house that need to be stored.
I suggested that she post-pone the party, but she had already committed to her friend to have a natural skincare product line called Pure Mana from the big island of Hawaii, and it’s owners (organic farmers of coffee and macadamia nuts) fly in to be showcased at the party, and the invitations had already been sent out.
Apparently, the warehouse for the cosmetic line had been destroyed in a huge fire, with all of the merchandise along with it. So, friends in Oahu, got together, and volunteered flowers, catering, and my daughter, the use of her home for the party.
Undeterred, we carry on with the plans to have the house ready for guests.
The party was a success.
Everything fell into place.
There were more than 40 people attending.
It was a lovely evening had by all.
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